I've never
understood the phenomenon of New Year's Resolutions. Sure, I get that it's a
chance to start afresh with a clean slate, but these ritualized promises have
become synonymous with bulleting a never ending list
The problem with resolutions is not
only that they are overly ambitious (lose 50 pounds, yay?), too vague (drink
less, though what is "less"?), or highly specific (anything short of
reaching that exact target feels like a failure), but that they fail to account
for ingrained habits. Furthermore, these resolutions don't connect to what
happens after they've been accomplished. So you've managed to "become a
better person"...then what? We don’t follow!!
Why is it that we have no more moral
stamina than a noodle when it comes to keeping our resolutions? Because New
Year resolutions are just symbolic. Everyone is making them, so we also
try to make some. That way we too have something to share with the group in
Whatsapp/Facebook wall. The problem is there is no conviction behind these
resolutions. They are born out of tradition and group conformity rather than
through a thought-out mental exercise. When one has a firm resolve to do
something, one doesn't wait for a particular auspicious day to start it. One
just does it.
Most New Year resolutions lack both
the will and the plan for action. They just remain an exercise in fantasy, and
seldom amount to anything on the ground of reality.
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