Why i am blogging

            A couple months ago, I was losing motivation for my blog. So today, I sat back and thought, “Why is blogging so effective?” Here are three reasons I came up with.

1. It lets you write faster.

            One of the things that would frustrate me is my speed in producing content. Or I should say, my lack of speed. It used to take me over two hours just to create a 500 word post. But when I started basing my posts on personal experiences, I found that the words would naturally flow. Now I can

complete a post in 45 minutes to an hour and a half. Also, this strategy helps me write longer, more comprehensive posts since there is a wealth of knowledge from my personal experiences. Think of it this way. Let’s say you have a gadget blog. You can give your opinion on the latest gadget. Or you can actually buy the gadget and try it out. Or least go to the store to demo it. You’ll definitely have more to say if you use the gadget yourself. And you’ll write more efficiently because you have the experience to draw upon.

2. It builds trust.

            Trust is one of those things that can be tricky to measure. Especially online, it’s difficult to tell how much trust you’re building with your audience. However, we can look at our friendships and see that self disclosure is one of the foundations to building close, trustworthy friendships. Consider your best friends, aren’t your best friends the people you know the most? Everytime we share something about ourselves. By the way, I think sharing our experiences has to include our times of difficultly. No one has a perfect life. If you blog as though you’ve got everything together and haven’t experienced hard times, you look like a fake.

3. It helps people remember you.

            We have to be memorable. One of the ways to help people remember you is to share your personal experiences. Our human minds remember stories much better raw facts. We can recall the plots in the movies we’ve seen and the novels we’ve read, but we have a hard time remembering the facts from our college textbooks. In their bestselling business book, Made to Stick, Chip and India Today say that telling stories is one of the best ways to help people remember you

Relationship

Never go into a relationship that you can't
handle with the
strongest storm and tightest schedule..
"Remember, Girls are not toys. "
"Love is not a game. "
If you can't stand With
women's moodiness and women's
questions, don't Love one..
Never Blame a GIRL for Loving And Caring
you too much...

Newton in Romantic Mood......

First law of Love: " a boy in love with a girl, continue to be in love with her and a girl in love with a boy, continue to be in love with him, until or unless any external agent(brother or father of the gal) comes into play and break the legs of the boy. "

Second law of Love: " the rate of change of intensity of love of a girl towards a boy is directly proportional to the instantaneous bank balance of the boy and the direction of this love is same to as increment or decrement of the bank balance. "

Third law of Love: " the force applied while proposing a girl by a          boy is equal and opposite to the force applied by the girl while slapping ."

Special Chars

To type a special character, using an Alt keyboard sequence:

1.   Ensure that the Num Lock key has been pressed, to activate the numeric key section of the keyboard.

2.   Press the Alt key, and hold it down.

3.   While the Alt key is pressed, type the sequence of numbers (on the numeric keypad) from the Alt code in the above table.

4.   Release the Alt key, and the character will appear.

¢      Alt 155

£      Alt 156

¥      Alt 157

©     Alt 0169

®     Alt 0174

Ø      Alt 0216

Þ      Alt 0254

±      Alt 241

«      Alt 174

»      Alt 175

¦       Alt 179

ß      Alt 225

µ      Alt 230

æ      Alt 145

Æ     Alt 146

°       Alt 248

•       Alt 249

Friendship Feelings Forgiveness

Post aft a proposal frm a grl who iz my frnd

I hve few close frnds and even fewer people seem to get me. At first I thought there was something wrong with me. Then I felt that I didn’t communicate enough. With time I hve realized dat d problem iz dual. First of all, I don’t speak too much about me. When I don’t speak so much about myself, people will not talk to me abt themselves. And secondly, I don’t ask people too much abt themselves. This is not a great thing socially since people perceive me to be someone who doesn’t care, doesn’t listen or doesn’t have empathy. But the truth is the few people who do know me know dat I can be a fabulous friend. To me friendships matter more and I am always willing to give a frnd their due respect and time.

Despite this wisdom, many-a- times my choice of frndships has been determined not by choice but by circumstance. Though I am blessed nd fortunate to hve met people who have taught me valuable lessons: - Friends, who smacked me nd acted silly only so I could laugh; I hve also made frnds who over time have slowly passed on much pain, bitterness and grief my way either through their actions.

It takes months before U begin to understand people. While the initial spark and circumstances that drew you close progresses to the routine of everyday conversations, you begin to look at people beyond their words. You begin to look at intent, you begin to observe actions. In the fresh fun of new friendships, we overlook their flaws. But with time their flaws and our flaws begin to clash. And if their personality differs from yours, we tend to get angry and withdraw suddenly or we forgive them their flaws.

Forgiving someone their flaws and forgiving yourself in choosing that friendship is the hardest thing of all. After all learning to unfriend someone is not easy and it is so hard to let go of an individual when you feel you have invested so much of time, energy and emotion in them. But two valuable lessons I have re-learnt this past days is that

1.    That while your goodness might keep you investing in a friendship hoping for a change in your friend, it is important to also have the other person invest in you.

2.    Not all friendships are meant to be forever.

I got these lines from a beautiful article by Rebecca Lammersen “Check in with yourself when you leave someone’s presence. Ask yourself, do I feel uplifted and happy? Or, do I feel depleted and lethargic? If you feel uplifted, the person you were just with is a supporter, keep them around. If you feel depleted, the person you were with is an enemy to your heart, don’t associate with them and make no apologies,” she says. When my vision in life is to be someone who brings joy, goodness and hope into other people’s lives, when my goal is to be spiritually aware and uplifted every moment, I cannot allow myself to be hurt by the words and actions of those who do not share the values as mine.”

And so it is time for some goodbyes, it is time to un-friend and re-friend.