Why we can't keep New year resolutions?

I've never understood the phenomenon of New Year's Resolutions. Sure, I get that it's a chance to start afresh with a clean slate, but these ritualized promises have become synonymous with bulleting a never ending list 

The problem with resolutions is not only that they are overly ambitious (lose 50 pounds, yay?), too vague (drink less, though what is "less"?), or highly specific (anything short of reaching that exact target feels like a failure), but that they fail to account for ingrained habits. Furthermore, these resolutions don't connect to what happens after they've been accomplished. So you've managed to "become a better person"...then what? We don’t follow!!

Why is it that we have no more moral stamina than a noodle when it comes to keeping our resolutions? Because New Year resolutions are just symbolic.  Everyone is making them, so we also try to make some. That way we too have something to share with the group in Whatsapp/Facebook wall. The problem is there is no conviction behind these resolutions. They are born out of tradition and group conformity rather than through a thought-out mental exercise. When one has a firm resolve to do something, one doesn't wait for a particular auspicious day to start it. One just does it. 

Most New Year resolutions lack both the will and the plan for action. They just remain an exercise in fantasy, and seldom amount to anything on the ground of reality.

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Pinnacle of love

Daily you appear distinctly new to me…
Who has destined our relation?
Who has introduced you to me?
Who drew me towards you?
Who has stopped me looking at you?
Do you know? That I am in love with you❤❤
I have composed my love to you…
I have penned down that I am nothing but you…
I will turn into melodious song for you!!
With loads of happiness..
You paused my are filled in my eyes..
I am empty like the dark sky on a new moon day..
You have won my love
I don’t know what this feeling is??
I never felt so before
I will treasure you in my little heart
It amuses my heart with pleasure….❣❣

Frist 10 people on Facebook, website web site ordained into the 2nd largest in the world, surely we all already know. This site is great demand of children, teenagers, adults to the elderly though. But do you know who the people who first registered on Facebook are. Here are the first 10 registrants at the site of the largest friendship and his account is still active today.

1. Mark Zuckerberg :
Founder and inventor of Facebook this is the person who first enroll in this phenomenal networking. Currently Zuckerberg became one of the richest young men in the world with a fortune of nearly 10 billion U.S. dollars.

2. Chris Hughes:
Chris Hughes is the Co-Founder of Facebook Mark Zuckerberg's room m ate at the same time as they study at Harvard University. Project that made  his name skyrocketed in addition to being a co-founder of Facebook

3. Dustin Moskovitz:
Dustin Moskovitz is a co-founder of Facebook Mark Zuckerberg's roommate at the same time as they study at Harvard University. Moskovitz has a facebook share by 6% who made  his fortune estimated at 1.4 billion U.S. $.

4. Arie Hasit:
Arie Hasit is a good friend of Mark Zuckerberg.  When they studied at Harvard they often do activities together - together. Now he works as a spokesman for the Israeli army. 

5. Marcel Georges Laverdet II:
Little is known about Marcel Georges Laverdet II. Which can be known only for her work on Facebook.

6. Soleio:
Soleio are technical employees Facebook. On the page - his, he wrote that his work is related to the technical Facebook.

7. Chris Putnam:
Chris Putnam is one of the software engineer Facebook. There are unique from Chris Putnam is one - only people who have an avatar in Facebook.

8. Andrew McCollum:
Andrew McCollum was a classmate of Mark Zuckerberg at Harvard at the same time. He is a graphic designer at Facebook first. It was he who designed the first logo Facebook

9. Colin Kelly"
A little info about this person. Certainly he is an alumnus of Harvard University. Most likely was a classmate of Mark Zuckerberg

10. Mark Kaganovich:

Mark Kaganovich was an alumnus of the Harvard field of computer science. He is the founder of Labmeeting, which is a kind of social network (like Facebook) but is devoted to the scientists.

The Day Will Come

I looked at the road that my love travelled,
For a long time my eyes were filled again.
Your face came to my mind.
These beautiful eyes which I haven't seen before...are killing me today.
These cute little smiles which didn't exist till now...are grazing past me today.
The moment I saw you...I lost myself.
Those eyes are speaking lot with me.
If you are with me...wouldn't all my life melt away like a day.
You are the reason for the warmth inside me.
You are the reason for my intense thirst.
Leaving this world...I follow you to the dreamland.
You are the nectar for my heart ...poison for my age.

Coffee and Cigarette Krazy combination

I still don’t understand how the bond between coffee and cigarette is so strong. Both can stimulate the mood; make you feel less tired for some time. But cigarette makes you little makes you to feel little drowsy and on other side coffee make you out of drowsy. So, how come this combination is so strong and so popular?

When I asked my friend, he says “Coffee and cigarettes go together so well because, caffeine and nicotine are like brothers. They are both stimulants, but they affect different parts of your body; while coffee affects more your body giving you energy, nicotine affects more your brain. Giving you more focus.”

I am still not satisfied with the answer and in the next day morning I asked other one who takes Coffee and cigarettes as his breakfast and he says “I don’t know but when i wake up first thing i want is a cigarette and a cup of coffee. It’s been my everyday breakfast for like the last 3 years. If i don’t have my coffee and cigarette when I get up i just won’t feel right all day.”

But when I searched on web it say “Coffee and cigarettes actually a terrible, not very tasty, combination, say scientists” and even more it effects more on health when this combination taken a first thing after wake-up from bed.

I still confused why both version are far cry from. I am neither going to comment on both statement nor sit on fence. It’s their choice of lifestyle. The krazy answer I got is “Imagine you are a factory or construction worker. You start working at 7 in the morning, and by the time its 3, you are totally burnt out and fatigued. You need a stimulant. So you have a cup of tea and a puff, and together, they stimulate you back to morning freshness. Moreover, in many places, you only get one single 10-minute break. So you've got to do both your tea and smoke in that time.” What is your answer?? Comment below

8 unknown facts of 26/11 Mumbai Attack

        India has seen a number of terrorist attacks since independence. While each of the attacks left a scar on the heart of every Indian, the worst among all the terrorist attacks was the 26/11 Mumbai attack of 2008. 26/11 attack was different in a sense that for the first time, terrorists trained in Pakistan, used the sea route to enter India. The terrorists who participated in 26/11 Mumbai attacks were highly trained and were preparing for this strike for quite a long time. Their objective was to create terror.

1.Attacked tourist attractions of Mumbai
All these terrorists want to spread terror in the city and hence they attacked popular tourist attractions in Mumbai, such as the Taj Mahal Hotel, Leopold’s Cafe/Restaurant, and Oberoi Hotel.

2. Number of people killed and injured
The terrorists killed almost 164 people and injured more than 600 people.

3. Taken drugs
To stay awake for long hours, these all terrorists had taken cocaine and LSD during the attacks to sustain their energy and stay awake for 50 hours.

4. It was planned attack
According to the media reports, 26/11 attack in Mumbai was a planned attack by Pakistan’s terrorist organization, Lashkar-e-Taiba.  The attackers had planned the attack several months ahead of time and knew some areas well enough to vanish and reappear after security forces had left. The attackers used at least three SIM cards purchased on the Indian side of the border with Bangladesh. There were also reports of a SIM card purchased in the US state New Jersey. According to a report published in New York Times it was believed that Indian, British and American Intelligence had some kind of input about Terror plot in India, but they failed to coordinate.

6. Ajmal Amir Kasab and Abu Dera Ismail Khan killed 22 Muslims
Ajmal Amir Kasab and Abu Dera Ismail Khan killed about 58 people at CST including 22 Muslims, and injured more than 104 in just 15 minutes.

7. All terrorists killed except one
According to the media reports, there were 10 terrorists who entered in the city through sea and out of 10, 9 terrorists were killed. Mumbai Police and NSG Commandos arrested one terrorist named Mohammad Ajmal Aamir Kasab. He was hanged till death.
8. Railway Police filed case
To your surprise, Railway Police filed a case against Ajmal Kasab for entering CST railway station without ticket. It is one of the funny facts about 26/11 attack in Mumbai.

        These were some lesser known facts about 26 11 Attacks in Mumbai in 2008. It is often called as India’s 9/11 and one of the deadliest Terrorist attack in India.

Take a holiday from your World by reading a book!!!

I believe that an ailment that can be cured by reading a good book.
        If that sounds whacky, I'd go even further. Almost any book will do. As long as it's a good book – with engrossing characters who catch your attention –
reading gives you a break from yourself. And a break from ourselves, it seems to me, is precisely the thing most of us desperately require. When you ask me what's you favorite read then I say, "I never read anything I haven't written myself ." I was much mocked at time, social media has now left many people in much the same situation. We have created a universe in which every person is a sun about whom all planets revolve. It's not called Facebook for nothing. It's a book written by you, and about you, and for you – as if you are staring into a picture of yourself. It's not so much a MacBook as a MacphersonBook.
        This is a world that could have been designed to create social anxiety, self-doubt and depression; a world in which people are constantly thinking about themselves and their relationship to others. How did the old joke go? "Enough about me. Let's talk about you. What do you think about me." That's Facebook in one.
       The magic of reading is that the reader disappears. Every keen reader has had the experience of being "lost in a book". It's the phrase we habitually use because
Reading books can help you cope with the real world
it is so accurate to the sensation. You find yourself entirely inside the world of the book, oblivious even to your physical circumstances. Your bad knee stops aching, your cup of tea goes cold and – most excitingly – your anxieties evaporate. With great writers, every sentence somehow tips the reader into the next; each scene pulls the reader deeper into the thickets of the story. A door opens, and there is this glorious, momentary escape from self – this break from the ego-surfing, Facebook-checking, Instagram-posting world. Yes, other art offers the same escape, but reading may be the most potent pill; probably because it requires more from our imagination, as we picture the world in which these characters walk – filling-in as designer, authour, student,oncologist...
        And here is something hilarious: whenever we have this holiday from ego – with whichever art form – our various devices become unhappy: anxiously pinging and

When I had too much reality I open book. . .
poking, insisting we return ourselves to the center of the picture. Why not rate the book you've just finished on Good Reads? Or discuss your favorite TV show while it's being broadcast using Twitter? Or take a photo of yourself queuing to see the Mona Lisa and post it on Instagram? How lovely to think: the less anxious we are, the more anxious are our devices. They are worried, I guess, that art is allowing us to free ourselves from their control.
As my devices ping and trill and flash, I try to be sympathetic to their mounting panic :P ;)


Write to Xpress

An open reply to the one who asks me the question, why you write all these?

        I only write when something come around me and affect my emotions that
I can’t do anything until I’ve articulated them. Am I allowed to write about anyone/anything? No one has written about me so I don’t know what that feeling is - the feeling of seeing your character being picked apart and observed by someone else. But there have been times when I’ve written things about them and it has affected small parts of how we interact. I remember writing an email to my frnds (who are followers of this blog anyway) which I thought was really from the heart. I received a beautiful reply but is it OK if I share those feelings with the entire internet? No, I am not projecting views of society towards me I jst drop lines for my feelings….

        I’d like to believe that the people who really care about me will continue to treat me the same way regardless because they know that the need to express myself is something I can’t fight. It’s a trade-off: do you release something into the public domain that could benefit many, at the risk of isolating a few? Maybe this inertia is what holds most people back from expressing themselves artistically.

        I am here because some part of me wants to compete with them. I didn't come alone though. I'm here with friends and acquaintances.

Things that girl should know😉

  • My boyfriend barely talks to me. He only speak a few sentences to me the week, and it is all about office stuff. I feel so emotionally disconnected from him. I feel like we are roommates. I don’t feel like we are in relation.
  • My boyfriend won’t talk with me about anything. He says he has nothing on his mind and doesn’t need to talk.
  • My partner never gives me affirmation or compliments. He won’t meet my needs!
  • I can’t live with a man who won’t talk about his deepest feelings and thoughts.
  • I take it very personally that he won’t share his heart with me.
  • He wants space and time to himself and I feel unloved when he doesn’t want to spend time with me talking.
        I don't understand why girls make such statements if say so they have no point to show that some one is not take care of them just because he is speaks less
to you. Girls should know that boys shows love without words and appreciate. The key is that you needs to recognize how he shows love and accept his way of showing love as being valid and appreciating what he does instead of being angry that he doesn’t change and doesn’t show love with a lot of emotional words. If you need some one to who talk to you much and a lot then go and find some good chatterbox girlfriends.

        Learn to read his body language and non-verbal communication about his love for you. Accept that he may not give a lot of compliments – and appreciate
that he probably doesn’t give a lot of criticism, either. Be willing to accept his way of bonding many times – by being together shoulder to shoulder doing something without a lot of talking :P. If he doesn’t appreciate or want a lot of verbal praise/encouragement – learn how to bless him with non-verbal respect – big smiles, possibly hugs if he is ok with that(all boys are OK with that 🙈:P), doing special things for him that he would appreciate. Don't pressure him to try to make him open up. Create an emotionally safe place for him then see how much he talk. Be calm and pleasant and friendly when you share your heart with him. Let him associate “talking with you” with pleasant emotions.

Note: Men will be Men, No offence please 😎

Krazy WordzZ..Love..FriendzZ

"Sometimes you hear but you don't listen. Sometimes you talk but you don't speak. Sometimes you look but you don't see."
Words are a beautiful and dangerous thing. You can make someone's alive or kill their dreams. You can give them the courage of a lion or a vast amount of self-doubt so they struggle to get up on a morning. Words can make or break something. Some people are given the power to use words beautifully even if the words themselves aren't a thing of beauty. This is the ultimate gift in this world. Here the some krazy words I heard recently more.


        "Love" for me was always overrated. The need of being with someone all the time and when apart the
constant wondering what your love is up to and where she is, what she is doing. The desperate feeling  of  immediately sharing  a wonderful experience  or news with  her or  the excitement of  meeting  her,  when  you wait  for your wall clock  to tick away to your desired time. I remember laughing it off when I use to see others going through this, "what a terrible state of mind" use to be my reaction. And I completely dismissed these feelings of the ones who did felt the same with me. As I was more to them than they were to me. But I was never able to connect with them that deeply even though I stayed in the relationship sometimes for their sake sometimes for the sake of the useless habit of seeing them in my life day in and day out. 


        Friends, they come into your life to teach you lessons. To make you stronger. To show you different colors of life. To tell you what you never knew before. To polish you. To make you something you were not.
To reveal something you were hiding inside. Friends, they are the ones. The ones who have everything. The ones who get everything they want. The ones who think they know everything. The ones who always end up being more...appreciated than us, the ones who try so hard to receive the appreciation we deserve.

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