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A Coffee Date With My Ex-Girlfriend: Reconnecting After 9 Years

There's something special about reconnecting with an old flame. When I received a message from my ex-girlfriend, inviting me out for coffee to catch up, I felt a mix of emotions. I was both excited and nervous to see her again. As soon as I saw her, I knew that I had made the right decision to reach out. Despite the years that had passed, it was as if no time had gone by at all. We hugged each other and sat down at a cozy table near the window.

The first thing I noticed was how much she had changed. Her hair was shorter, and her smile was more radiant than ever before. We spent a few minutes catching up on the basics, like where we were living and what we were doing for work, but then we quickly dove into deeper topics. We talked about our families, our hopes and dreams, and what we had learned over the past decade. It was as if we were picking up right where we had left off all those years ago.

As we sipped our coffee, I couldn't help but feel grateful for this moment. I realized that it's not often that we get the chance to reconnect with someone from our past in such a meaningful way. The conversation flowed easily, and we laughed and reminisced about old times. We even brought up some of the silly inside jokes we used to share, and it felt like no time had passed at all.

But as much as I enjoyed catching up with her, there was a sense of bittersweetness to it all. We both knew that we were different people than we were when we were together, and we both had moved on with our lives. As we said our goodbyes, I realized that even though our romantic relationship had ended, we still had a deep connection and a shared history that would always be a part of us.

In the end, our coffee date was a reminder of the power of human connection. No matter how much time has passed, the people we love will always hold a special place in our hearts.



Things that girl should know😉

 
  • My boyfriend barely talks to me. He only speak a few sentences to me the week, and it is all about office stuff. I feel so emotionally disconnected from him. I feel like we are roommates. I don’t feel like we are in relation.
  • My boyfriend won’t talk with me about anything. He says he has nothing on his mind and doesn’t need to talk.
  • My partner never gives me affirmation or compliments. He won’t meet my needs!
  • I can’t live with a man who won’t talk about his deepest feelings and thoughts.
  • I take it very personally that he won’t share his heart with me.
  • He wants space and time to himself and I feel unloved when he doesn’t want to spend time with me talking.
 
        I don't understand why girls make such statements if say so they have no point to show that some one is not take care of them just because he is speaks less
to you. Girls should know that boys shows love without words and appreciate. The key is that you needs to recognize how he shows love and accept his way of showing love as being valid and appreciating what he does instead of being angry that he doesn’t change and doesn’t show love with a lot of emotional words. If you need some one to who talk to you much and a lot then go and find some good chatterbox girlfriends.
 


        Learn to read his body language and non-verbal communication about his love for you. Accept that he may not give a lot of compliments – and appreciate
that he probably doesn’t give a lot of criticism, either. Be willing to accept his way of bonding many times – by being together shoulder to shoulder doing something without a lot of talking :P. If he doesn’t appreciate or want a lot of verbal praise/encouragement – learn how to bless him with non-verbal respect – big smiles, possibly hugs if he is ok with that(all boys are OK with that 🙈:P), doing special things for him that he would appreciate. Don't pressure him to try to make him open up. Create an emotionally safe place for him then see how much he talk. Be calm and pleasant and friendly when you share your heart with him. Let him associate “talking with you” with pleasant emotions.

Note: Men will be Men, No offence please 😎
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